If you only use bonuses to give ZCreds to children you're teaching them only to be good when they're being rewarded for it - not the desired outcome! Explain to your children that every week they will be given an allowance, this allowance is because they are kind and considerate children. Perhaps they already help around the house or look after their siblings - they needn't be given bonuses for these (although penalties may apply if they don't fulfill their duties). |